ANN ZULU Writes
As much as we urge women to make money and be financially independent, do not make it a criterion for gender equality.
Saying "make money so men will consider you equal" is untrue, sexist, unrealistic and elitist.
Untrue because even women that are multimillionaires are still disrespected and considered inferior by men. We see it happen everyday where rich and educated women are considered useless just because they are women. Money does not automatically confer you equality as a woman.
Sexist because men are respected and considered superior whether rich or poor. We do not say a poor man is inferior to a woman.
Unrealistic because there will always be poor people (both men and women) in this world. Not everyone will be rich. Not every woman will be a millionaire. Does that mean they do not deserve equality?
Elitist because it makes feminism and the struggle for equality a preserve of rich women. Feminism is for every woman. The pepper seller and the doctor. The CEO and the housewife. Therefore, basing your feminism on financial capacity is useless.
Let me put it this way, African Americans suffer racial prejudice and discrimination in America.
It is insensitive to tell them "go and make money so white people will consider you equal" when they complain of racism.
It is untrue because rich black folks also experience racism. Also, not all black folks will be rich and those poor black people deserve equality and humanity.
Money grants women a certain level of security in the society, no doubt. Which is why we urge women to make money. But money or financial status should not be a criterion for gender equality.
Money should be a tool for female empowerment not a determinant for female empowerment.
Check your brand of feminism. If it thrives on broke-shaming women and telling them your face cream can feed their family, you, my dear woman, are despicable.
