By Ann Zulu
IT was a horrendous criminal and barbaric act for Dorcas Mukondwa to blow off the fingers of her nephew, orphaned eight-year old
Ethen Muleyi using fireworks on the eve the New Year.
Although bizarre, the act exposed a heart of evil and
one look at Ethen’s ripped fingers leaves even the most hard-hearted person in
tears.
Eight-year-old Ethen Muleyi with ripped fingers
With ripped fingers and stitches on his right hand,
one would think that he is one of those children from war-torn countries. No, Ethen
is from a home where hatred governed the emotions of the woman who was his care
and whose frustrations had nothing to do with the boy coming home at 18:00
hours on the eve of New Year.
Eight-year-old Ethen Muleyi’s hand tells a tale of torture,
wickedness and inhuman treatment from the woman who is supposed to protect him
- his aunt.
Just like many adults were excited about entering the
year 2017, children too were looking to the New Year with lots of expectations.
But for little Ethen, the New Year started on a sad note for him, because something
unimaginable happened to him on the second day of the year, on January 2.
On that fateful day, Ethen woke up all happy and went to
play with his friends within the neighbourhood in Lusaka’s Chazanga compound
where he lived with his aunt, Dorcas Mukondwa, 39.
Being a child, little Ethen forgot that he was supposed
to be home early, he instead got home around 18:00hrs. His aunt was furious and
as a way of punishing him, she tied fireworks with a string to his right hand
and lit it with matches.
They exploded in his face and hand, blowing off two
fingers.
Ethen’s aunt was on Monday January 23 jailed for four
years by the Lusaka Magistrates Court after she admitted the offence of
grievous bodily harm contrary to the Laws of Zambia.
Ethen's aunt Dorcas Mukondwa before at Lusaka's Magistrates Court
Even though the boy’s case seems to have a happy
ending, his life will never be the same again, as he has been left disabled by
the person he looked up to as his guardian.
The whole incident will also have a grave impact on
his education as he will have to start learning to write with his left hand as
the right one had the fingers ripped off.
Like Ethen, many children in Zambia find themselves in
situations where they are abused, tortured, battered and sometimes killed by
people who are close to them.
Not long ago, a two-year-old boy was allegedly
battered to death by his step-father for peeing on bed.
And recently a six-month-old baby was badly burnt and
died from its wounds after the mother left all alone in the house and went out
with her friends.
In reaction to Ethen’s touching story, stakeholders are
calling for urgency in addressing and responding to issues of children’s rights
and protection in Zambia.
Zambia Conference of Catholic Bishops (ZCCB) observed
that the number of children who are sexually and physically abused,
psychologically tortured and maltreated is alarming.
ZCCB president Archbishop Telesphore Mpundu implored church
leaders to spearhead the fight against all forms of child abuse and ensure that
they were protected, by making the evil of such acts a constant theme of their
preaching.
“The church should stand ready in a singular position
to spearhead this fight. Let us put together whatever we have in terms of
reflections to that we can move ahead. We mobilise everyone in the church
beginning from the family. Children are most abused and tortured by the people
who know them.
“We have to mobilise Small Christian Communities, Lay
Apostolic Movements, the clergy, the religious, just everyone, to fight child
abuse and torture,” he said.
Media Network on Children’s Rights and Development
(MNCRD) director Henry Kabwe says it is time the Government and all stakeholders showed that they
meant business in putting an end to the worrying trend of children being abused
and tortured in the country.
Mr Kabwe reiterated that children’s rights are human
rights, and deserve to be protected.
He states that Ethen’s story and that of many other
children are a wake-up call for Government to strengthen and take up its
statutory responsibility and duty to protect citizens from harm, especially
vulnerable groups such as children.
He also called on NGOs dealing with children’s rights
and protection to ensure that they scale up their efforts in addressing issues
of violence against children.
“Many children in Zambia need protection from the risk
and harm that threatens their rights and well-being. Both Government and NGOs
need to do more if children are to be 100 percent safe,” Mr Kabwe said.
And Child Labour ambassador Samson Mutambo demanded
that the desecration of the innocence of children and violation of their
dignity which had constituted a dent on the soul of humanity must stop.
Mr Mutambo said there was need for all stakeholders to
prevail on the Government to enforce the National Child Policy of 2006 which assures
children’s protection from vices that violates their rights.
He emphasised that there was need to safeguard
children nationwide and punish offenders including parents and guardians who abuse
children and endanger their lives.
“There is no way one can explain the effects of
negative actions on children. Torturing a child is not the solution, in the end
it does not change the child nor bring about appropriate behaviour,” Mr Mutambo
said.
Children who are physically, emotionally and
psychologically abused do not turn out better at the end of the day.
According to a psycho-social counsellor Charles Banda,
such children in turn abuse others because they tend to see how they were
treated as the way of life.
Mr Banda also notes that children that grow in abusive
environment have 75 percent chance of developing mental illness and might be
suspicious of people around them.
“After taking in so much punishment and inhumane treatment
from those close to them, these children may become suspicious of other close
relatives even when they have good intentions for them as well as strangers.
“Children should not be tortured just to correct them,
all they need is therapy. The perception of such a child, that is, his thinking
and his disposition to people will not be that positive anymore for a long
time, except that it takes real intervention in terms of showing them consideration,
love and compassion,” Mr Banda said.
Like the old Bemba proverb, “imiti ikula empanga”
meaning children are the future, children are the future of Zambia and for
Zambia to be a successful nation children’s rights ought to be protected.
Zambians must be vigilant and report cases of abuse of
children around them. They need to report parents, guardians and anyone who
violates children’s rights.